There are no absolute rules on who pays for what. Traditionally, the majority
of the wedding expenses have been borne by the bride's family. However, today
with the increased cost of weddings, this obligation depends on the
individual situation.
It is best to discuss the subject with both families
in order to work out the best solution for everyone.
Traditionally, the expenses involved are paid for by the bride, the groom,
and their families as follows:
The Bride:
Wedding ring for the groom.
A wedding gift for the groom.
Gifts for the bridal attendants.
Personal stationery.
Medical examination and blood test.
Accommodations for out-of-town attendants.
The Groom:
The bride's engagement and wedding rings.
A wedding gift for the bride.
Gifts for the best man and ushers.
Groom's wedding attire.
Bride's bouquet and going away corsage.
Mothers' corsages
Boutonnieres for attendants and fathers.
Medical examination and blood test.
Marriage license.
Clergyman's fee.
The honeymoon expenses.
Bachelor dinner (if not given by the best man, optional).
The Bride's Family:
Engagement party (optional).
Ceremony cost: location, music, rentals, and all related expenses.
